1. Rubbing Your Clit:
This is a very common way for women to masturbate and due to the sensitivity of the clitoris, many women are able to achieve satisfying orgasms with the tips of their fingers. You can stimulate your clitoris to become horny or to reach climax. Your clitoris is super sensitive and is apparently the pleasure-centre of the your lady parts, so try to focus generally on the external part of the clitoris at first.
It’s a "pea-like area that sits at the top of the inner labia, and sometimes likes to sit under it’s hood." If you’re wet, you can use some of your wetness to slide your fingers over your clitoris. I can’t stress enough that you must clean your hands before and after touching yourself, it’s a very sensitive area. Start off slow and as your become more aroused and feel ready to climax, increase your pace and your breathing may increase, your body will hopefully react and you might shake…voila! Hello orgasm!
I’d suggest watching something (whatever turns your on — makes you wet). Don’t start to masturbate until you can feel that you’re wet. Once you are, make sure whatever your watching goes for long enough so you’re able to cum and don’t have to stop and find something else to watch whilst you’re really close, it’s frustrating. Now, you don’t have to watch porn whilst you masturbate. Feel free to just use your imagination. It’s not just about your clitoris either. Positions vary, as well. Do what you feel is comfortable…usually laying on your back is best.
Worship your own body as you would want someone else to. Run your hands over yourself and kneed your breasts, pinch your nipples as well (lick your finger tips and swirl them around your nipples). Squeeze your ass if you like too, involve your sense of touch, trust me. Tease yourself and make it an enjoyable experience.
2. Fingering Yourself:
Usually fingering yourself goes hand in hand with rubbing your clitoris and can increase your pleasure if you do both at the same time. It can be difficult in certain positions and isn’t for everyone, but if you know how to do it, it can be very satisfying. Now, if you’re comfortable, relaxed and it feels right, insert one finger. With your palm firmly pressed to your clit, and a finger inside you, glide your finger until you find a textured part. This, my lovely ladies, is called your G-Spot. It’s usually about 2-3 inches inside your vagina and causes orgasms relating to penetration (finger, toys, penis etc).
It’s amazing how much pleasure you can get from just pressing your g-spot. If you do this as you finger yourself (press your fingers into your g-spot), you should feel pleasure. If not, thats okay. Not everyone does feel pleasure from it, similar to the clitoris…either it may not be for you, or you might prefer when someone else does it. You can insert two fingers if you’re comfortable, or three, whatever floats your boat. Depending on exactly what you like, you can go slow and rub your clit at the same time, or go fast and finger fuck yourself until you reach climax. Most girls tend to keep their focus on their clit and move their fingers down to insert them sometimes and increase their wetness. It all comes with practice as well and discovering what feels best for you, personally.
3. Using Water To Masturbate:
Yes. Water. This feels absolutely incredible, I can’t even explain how amazing it feels to do this. Ugh…anyways…If you have a detachable shower head, you’re once lucky girl and are one step away from having a leg shaking orgasm! Hopefully it has massager adjustments, haha. Okay, so do exactly what the girl in the gif is doing…you don’t need to use your hands, though. Stand comfortably in the shower and change the water temperature to a decent temp that won’t burn your lips or freeze them to death! I’d suggest a slightly cool option - it makes a hot shower amazing (that reminds me, have a hot shower before you start, the cool water will feel great!) If you have a setting for back massage, use that — but adjust it so it isn’t like a firefighters hose…turn the water down. Hold it towards your clit, so the water hits it and around it and you will know what to do from there! If you don’t have a detachable shower head — still hope for you too:
The faucet in your bathtub will become your best friend! I don’t even see the use for hands when doing this, because you can change the pressure and temp to suit your needs, but hey! Whatever feels good - do it! Same thing applies, really. Position yourself under the water…sometimes sitting on a wash cloth is nice, because your tail bone might hurt after awhile, or you might have a stupid plug right under your tap like me…it’s annoying, haha. Have fun with it, trust me!
I honestly want a bath like this girl, though:
4. Using A Pillow:
This can be an intense way to orgasm and causes a lot of heavy breathing. Get a pillow that you’re comfortable with using and you can either fold it in half or not, depending on your preference. It’s important to be wet or aroused before starting to grind/hump the pillow. Place it between your legs and start by rubbing your clit against the pillow in circular motions (or you can just hump back and forth). Repeat until you orgasm, haha.
5. Vibrators:
Are amazing inventions! You can buy them from sex shops or online. They are the most popular toy for women as they stimulate the nerves in and around the gentiles. Be smart and think of what you like sexually in the bedroom before purchasing a vibe. If you like penetration, buy something like a “Gigi,” if you like clitoral stimulation, try a “Hitachi Wand” or “Body Wand.” If you like both, I’f suggest a “Rabbit,” they allow for both clitoral stimulation and penetration!
If you don’t have enough money for a vibrator or are too scared to purchase one, fear not! There are secretive alternatives that are completely safe too! They do the exact same thing as well and will leave your legs shaking just as much! Ever heard of those cleansers that vibrate? The Neutrogena Wave is an ultra sonic vibrating cleanser that’s battery powered…pretty sure it was made for two reasons, haha. This is amazing when pressed against your clit. Take off the soap attachment obviously, haha. Hand held back massagers do the same thing as well, they’re also discrete and feel amazing. But…the cleanser is water proof, so BONUS!
6. Dildos:
Dildos are great for women who enjoy penetration. They can come in a range of different shapes, sizes and colours. You can even get ones that are made of glass, like the one above. I want one, haha. Now, some come with suction attachments so you can stick it to the wall of your shower or the floor…any surface you wish, really and you can literally fuck it…they’re usually shaped like an actual penis. I also want one of those…if you have a little Google, I’m sure you’ll find thousands of different sex toys if you’re interested. You would get these the same way that I described getting a vibe.
An alternative to using a dildo would be to use a hairbrush, sounds strange…I know. But, it works and it’s cheap, secretive, you can take it anywhere and its waterproof! There’s so many alternatives. I mean, anything that doesn’t have chemicals in or on it is great. Things with long handles usually work…except a saucepan, obviously I don’t think that’s a good idea, haha. So, I think I’ve covered most things! I hope that helps all you girls out! Get fapping!
