If you’re looking for toys you can insert into various orifices, you must first ask yourself two questions; “do I want it to vibrate?” and “where do I want to put it?” toys that you can insert come in both vibrator and dildo, and designed for vaginal use and designed for anal use. It’s important to never use a toy both vaginally and anally unless you’re using condoms and switch condoms in between orifices. It’s also important to never use a toy anally unless it has a flared base. This is because the anus likes to suck inward and as soon as you or your partner loses grip that toy will go right into your anus and it’ll be really difficult to get out and you may need to take a trip to the emergency room.
Let’s start with vibrators. There are a few different kinds. Different kinds stimulate different parts of the vagina. Depending on what you want to stimulate, you’ll want a different kind of vibrator.
The first we’ll discuss is the classic vibrator. This doesn’t have any frills or add ons and is just a phallic object that vibrates. This works well for a beginner vibrator but if you don’t have a very sensitive vagina or g-spot it probably won’t do you much good. They come in many sizes, usually are pretty thin, many different settings and speeds, and many colors and materials. They come in pure silicone (which is the most safe), glass, metal, ceramic, plastic, TPR, rubber, jelly, and skin like. For basic stimulation try something like the Pink Lemonade Fruit Smoothie Vibrator or Seven. You can also find some really inexpensive ones like Mary and some really powerful ones like the Desire Vibe. You can also get some that are waterproof like the Electra Slimline Waterproof Vibrator. Some come with attachments so that there are different sizes, which can be used to work up to larger sizes or help treat Vaginismus like the Femani Intimates Wand Massager. You can also use any of these on the clitoris or other erogenous zones.
If your vagina isn’t very sensitive I’d suggest a g-spot vibrator. This is a vibrator specifically shaped to stimulate the g-spot. This makes them more curved than a classic vibrator. They come in many sizes and tend to be a little wider than classic vibrators, although they can be quite thin. They usually have different settings, colors and materials. They come in pure silicone, glass, metal, plastic, TPR, rubber, jelly, or skin like. If you’d like something slim you can try the right spot vibrating silicone dildo which, because it has a flared base, can also be used for prostate play. G-spot vibrators can get a little pricy, so a good inexpensive vibrator would be Pure Ecstasy, Velvet G or Sultry Slims. If you want something a little bit more fancy and popular you could try the Gigi or Je Joue Uma. If you’d like something with special features you could try the Freestyle G Wireless Vibrator that vibrates to music. You could also try the ISLA insignia Vibrator if you’re looking for something rechargeable and waterproof. If you want something with an interesting design try the DeLight Click N Charge G-spot vibrator which has a serpentine appearance.
If g-spot stimulation by itself doesn’t do the trick you can try something that stimulates the clitoris as well. They come in many sizes and shapes, with a part that goes inside and a part that rests against the clitoris. They usually come in many different settings, colors, and materials. Materials include pure silicone, plastic, TPR, Rubber, Jelly, or skin like. These can get really expensive, unless you settle for a less safe material. The Butterfly Kiss is very popular because it’s high powered and inexpensive but it’s inexpensive because it is made of TPR which is difficult to clean an involves chemicals not safe for the vagina. If you use this toy use a condom with it. A good inexpensive and also safe vibrator is the Mood Seductive g-spot and clitoral vibrator. There are a lot of brands that specialize in combination vibrators like the Jopen Vanity, Ina, and Fifi. Other Luxury vibrators include the G-ki and Insignia Soraya. Other popular vibrators is the g-swirl smartvibes and tango silicone smartvibe. For something different you could get a freestyle wave rechargeable wireless vibe that vibrates to the music or a clitty cat that is interestingly shaped. Of course the most well-known of the combination vibrators is the Rabbit. There are a lot of different kinds of rabbit vibrators (and imitators). Usually the rabbit style vibrator has a rabbit clitoral stimulator and the head of the vibrator rotates as well as the vibrations. There are usually many settings to choose from.
If you want something that stimulates your vagina and your anus, you may want a double penetration vibrator. They come in many shapes and sizes, and have two prongs, one for the anus and one for the vagina. Usually the one for the anus is a little smaller and some also have a clitoral stimulator as well. They come in pure silicone, plastic, rubber and jelly. Unfortunately there aren’t that many vibrators made for anal stimulation in mind, and a lot of them are a lower quality. Hopefully there will be more vibrators made like this in the next few years. The best quality double penetration vibrator I’ve been able to find is the Tantus Flex. Tantus is a great brand, and what they do is they have silicone dildos that you can insert a bullet vibe into. The vibrations aren’t that strong, but it still stimulates. This doesn’t have a clitoral stimulator. You can also try the triple orgasm brand, that also has a clitoral stimulator.
If you’re just looking for something to stimulate your anus, you’ll want an anal vibrator. Remember, look for something with some sort of base that’s bigger around than the shaft of the toy. This will keep it from getting stuck in your anus. They can come in any color, shape, or size and come in silicone, plastic, TPR, Rubber, and Jelly. Tantus has quite a few anal vibrators in the style of the flex. There’s also anything in the Naughty Boy/Rude Boy/Cheeky Boy family. The Pandora is also nice. All of those are really good quality and can be expensive. For something a little less expensive try the Night Rider Vibe, which is also smaller and has a controller for the vibrations.
If you don’t need or aren’t a big fan of vibrations you can try a dildo. There more varied as far as size and shape than a vibrator, and there are a lot of specialty dildos. There is also a wider range of material; silicone, glass, metal, ceramic, wood, plastic, TPR, rubber, jelly, and skin like. If you just want a basic dildo for vaginal penetration you have a lot of options. Two main types are realistic and non realistic. Realistic dildos are shaped like an erect penis and usually have a skin tone color. Most are silicone. It’s really easy to find a circumcised dildo or a lighter color dildo, than darker colors or ones that have foreskins. Some have testicles attached and others don’t, some have veins (like the King), and most have a flaired base which means they’re harness compatible and can be used for anal play as well. There are various sizes available. Some have a vac-u-lock or suction cup so you can suction it to a surface. They can get pretty expensive, the most inexpensive but still good quality one I’ve seen is Suave Dildo. Tantus makes a lot of dildos. If you want something less realistic, there’s still a lot to choose from! The best way to choose what kind of dildo you want is material, look and size. Realistic dildos aren’t usually made from any material like glass, wood, ceramic, or metal so if you want any of those choose an un realistic dildo. Njoy is a very popular metal dildo brand, Fling is a popular wood brand, and Icicles is a really popular glass brand. These can get pretty expensive, but there are some inexpensive glass and metal toys. If you want something made of a different kind of material, there’s a lot of different brands. I always highly recommend Tantus. If you want something patterned after an animal either mythical or real I’d suggest Bad Dragon. There are a lot of dildos made specifically to stimulate the g-spot. They usually have a curved part meant to rub against the g-spot. Popular toys include the Siren Dildo, Ella, and G-force.
Anal toys also come in many different kinds. There’s dildos that can be used analy, those with flaired bases that include a lot of what we’ve talked about. Most Tantus dildos have flaired bases. There are also some like the Aneros brand that are made specifically for the anus. There are also some wooden, glass, and metal toys. There are also Anal Plugs. These are meant to be left in the anus and stimulate it that way. They can be made of any material dildos can. Usually they’re smaller than dildos and have a wider part meant to be inserted. Njoy makes a metal anal plug and Icicles makes a glass one. Pop plugs makes plugs in various sizes so you can start small and make your way up. The Little Flirt is a smaller anal plug for beginners. If size isn’t an issue some popular ones include the Boosty Silicone Plug and the Ryder. Anal Beads are also a popular toy, and look like a series of balls with either a lot of flexibility or not much flexibility. The Ripple, Casanova, and Felix are really popular. If you want something specifically to stimulate the prostate, there is a lot to choose from. Aneros toys are specifically prostate stimulators. A lot of toys that stimulate the g-spot like the Pandora or g-force also are good prostate stimulators.
There are other toys that can stimulate the anus including lube shooters, which shoot lube into your anus and enemas, which shoot water into your anus. Be careful with enemas though and don’t use them often as they can dry out your anus and cause infection or damage.
Other toys that can help stimulate and work out the vagina include pelvic floor exercisers. They can come in either a bar shape that you insert like the kona or pure wand. They can come in oblong shapes like the Ami or Jopen Vanity, or they can come in balls like luna beads, ben wa balls, or smartballs. A word of caution with luna beads; they do make jingling sounds as they, and you, move.
There’s a lot to choose from in all of these categories. What really matters is what they’re made of and how safe they are, if they stimulate what you want, that they’re something you can fit inside you comfortably, and if they look and feel in a certain way that makes you feel sexy. There’s a lot to keep in mind and you may buy something that you find you don’t like later and that’s okay. Just keep looking and refining what you like.
